Just like a too-perfect dating profile, cyber-scammers aim to charm you, fool you, and run off with your money or your Rutgers login. Save yourself from heartbreak in your inbox by watching for these red flags.
Time to ghost.
Suspect a scam? For once, ghosting’s the right move. Report any suspicious profiles through the app or platform you’re using, and report the scam to the FTC or the Internet Crime Complaint Center. If it’s via any of your Rutgers accounts, email abuse@rutgers.edu.
Is AI playing cupid?
AI deepfakes make it easy for scammers to create flawless faces and mimic smooth voices. Cyber attackers love targeting universities and impersonating members of your community. Do some detective work: look for real social media accounts, weirdly perfect images, or ask for a live video call. If their vibe feels more “chatbot” than “cute,” move on.
They want money? Hard pass.
Travel emergencies, medical bills, crypto “opportunities,” gift card requests—it’s a scammer’s greatest hits album. Review some tips from Rutgers IT and don’t send money or your personal financial information to strangers (no matter how charming they appear). You’re looking for love, not a part-time job funding a stranger.
“I love you” early is a warning sign.
Love bombing isn’t romance; it’s manipulation with extra glitter. Scammers pour on the affection to get you to drop your guard. Yes, you are absolutely amazing, but if someone proposes eternal devotion before learning your favorite food, be cautious. Review our spear phishing infographic to learn more about how cyber criminals manipulate you—and what to do if you suspect something fishy.
Don’t forget…
If a scam compromises your Rutgers account or data, report the incident by emailing abuse@rutgers.edu or calling the OIT Help Desk at 833-OIT-HELP.